EP.135 / No Rules
When the Rules Stop Existing: Polyamory, Body Shame, & Freedom with Chelsea
Hi my sweets 💛
Welcome back! Today I’m sitting next to Chelsea, and y’all… this conversation goes places. We talk about what happens when the “rules” you built your whole life on suddenly stop existing — from church girl monogamy, to a big year of exploration and expansion, to landing in a polyamorous life that actually feels like freedom.
Chelsea shares how she went from “I’m not sharing, not a chance” to solo poly with a nesting partner she adores, what it really looks like to date honestly with multiple people in the mix, and the hard, ongoing work of loving a body she was taught to hate. We get into faith deconstruction, jealousy, communication styles that are polar opposites, more love = more problems (and more magic), and why the more you explore, the safer you start to feel in your own skin.
This one is for anyone who’s ever outgrown the box they were handed… or is quietly wondering what else might be possible. 😏🔥
Be sweet to yourselves, my sweets.
Much love,
Barbie Jean ✨
